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Mirror 17 · Love

Conflict

Every argument is about two things: the surface issue, and the wound it has awakened. The surface issue is what gets discussed. The wound is what determines whether the relationship survives.

The mediation rooms of Pemberton & Associates occupied a floor in a Georgian townhouse near Lincoln's Inn Fields in London. The building was calm. The walls were painted in muted tones. The furniture was arranged not for confrontation but for conversation — armchairs placed at angles, no table betwe...

Reflection question

What would change in your life if you truly believed this?

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